even if you preface that you would not like to receive flirts or likes, most on there are aliterate and will spam your inbox aimlessly.6.there is very little quality on there; if you are crazy enough to waste money and pay to use the site, do not have any hopes or expectations.7.This site is for black men, black women and others who are interested in meeting someone special for friendship, a relationship or just to have fun.Having a large community of African American singles at your fingertips makes it easy and fun to connect with other singles in your area.*I do agree that IF there is a mutual interest to use some type of web video feature to validate who you're corresponding with, but many of these guys are either, presumptuous in assuming the woman is automatically interested in them and do not allow the women to make that initiation.11.the site overall is antiquated and laughable to think that the same company that owns owns this one, but this site is like the stepchild of their brand.
I believe the alleged "success stories" are not real and were posted by the site to give the illusion that some have found a quality connection.
you will be bombarded by those that will feel entitled to your personal information, sometimes after just a couple of messages.
Or, those that will want to skype with you and will try to use reverse psychology by saying things like: I need to make sure you're not a weirdo or you are really you.
However this last time, 2 days before my membership expired, I met the man of my dreams. I was pleasantly surprised when I saw his smiling face because his pics didn't do him justice. Long story short, we are soul mates, we are connected spiritually, physically, mentally and more.
He proposed to me and we are married and building a future together. I do think the experience is different for women in contrast to men and if you're a decent looking woman, you will more than likely not have a good experience and here's why:1.